Saturday, July 19, 2008

Applications now being accepted............

I have come to a conclusion. I need a new girlfriend. Um - let me explain that. I have lots of girlfriends. Some I've had for over 25 years. But none that extend into the side of my life that includes spanking. The only person I can talk to about that is my husband. I'm craving girl talk. Conversations that go naturally from the weather to our last shopping trip to our kids to the last spanking we got (or didn't get). Someone to share those experiences with as easily as talking about the last movie we saw. Someone who wouldn't be shocked when 'that' subject comes up. So I'm putting the idea out there. I'm looking for someone who is around my age (48) so that we might have had similar life experiences (kids, marriage, etc.). I'm an American living in England, so nationality doesn't matter as long as we can understand each other. I have a wicked sense of humor, so I'd love to talk to someone who isn't easily offended, but who is not overly offensive either. I like to hear about other people, but also want someone who is just as interested in me. I already have people in my life who are happy to talk to you as long as they are telling you about themself, but the minute you start to fill them in about your life, they have to go cook dinner. I'm just a normal, fun person who would like to have interesting conversations with another sane woman. We could start out as pen (email) pals, and then, if we like, move on to phone conversations. And that's as far as I see taking this. Don't worry - I'm not a weirdo who is looking to stalk someone and infringe upon their personal life. I just want someone I can talk to, damnit! (And I even have an insanely cheap calling plan, so I can make all the phone calls, even long distance ones to the States. I basically get them free.) So if there are any other normal females out there who would also like to be able to talk about this subject (and others - I would hope that wouldn't be ALL we would talk about) to another female, let me know. I'm told I'm a great listener and a good friend!

P.S. This is great - I've gotten responses from a couple of you and I'm looking forward to talking to you to see if we hit it off! But I can't get back to you as I don't have your email! Please be sure to go to my guestbook and leave me a private message with your email so I can get back in touch with you. Don't use the email link in the guestbook as that uses Outlook and I don't have that set up on my computer so I can't see your email address. Just type it into your message, and I'll drop you a line straight away.

10 comments:

stohrmom said...

Hello Leigh,

My name is Heather and I live in Canada. I am a 47 year old woman who loves to be spanked. I would love to be your email penpal. I have also been looking for someone to talk to and ask advice from. All the other blogs that I have found you need to get approved, or you need to buy a membership. Like you I need someone to share my life stories with, and I have no one here that knows how we feel and enjoy about spankings. I do have friends, but they do not have the same feelings as being spanked that I do, and I find it hard to talk to them about it, the way I would talk to someone who knows what it is like. Do you know what I mean, sometimes I get jumbled in what I am trying to say. I also have a dry sense of humour as my background is half English and half Scottish. You might say that I have been a closet spanko for most of my life, and I finally got up the nerve to check out spankings on the computer one night that I couldn't sleep. WOW, what have I been missing. I couldn't believe how many sites there were.
I hope that we can become friends and continue this discussion.

Hoping to be friends,
Heather

Leigh said...

Hi Heather! Would love to give chatting a try and see if we have anything in common. In order to keep it private, post another private message in my guestbook, but this time, type your email address into the message so I can contact you (I know the page has an email link, but I don't use Outlook so I can't access it.) Looking forward to hearing from you. Leigh

Leigh said...

BTW - I'm open to more than just one new friend, so please feel free to respond even if you see other messages here. We all need more friends - LOL!

fanny said...

Leigh-I have felt the same way as you,needing someone (especially someonenear my age-50) to talk to about spanking.I live in the U.S. My husband and I are newbies, I very recently came out to him. Would love to exchange E-mails with you. I recently read several of your old posts, and I think that we might have a lot in common.(and husbands with similar personalities..) Also, I have always thought that it would be nice to live in England, so I would be interested to hear your take on that. Gotta love that British sense of humor! The accent just wipes me out! It always sounds so damn polite! Well I'm babbling so... hope to hear from you soon.

Leigh said...

Hey Fanny! Would love to talk to you! If you go to my guestbook (scroll down the left side of the page)and right above the clock is a button that flashes 'sign my guestbook' and 'click here'. Put an entry in the guest book - set it as a private message so everyone can't see your email - and actually put your email address as part of your message. Don't use the email link as that is Outlook and I can't access that. I'll email you directly and we can chat. Looking forward to it! Oh boy - two possible new friends so far. This is great!

Leigh said...

Oh Fanny - you also said you were interested in my take on the Brits. I have to tell you, you have a name that is a word that will make grown British men giggle like schoolboys. In England, a fanny is a woman's lower front bits, not the backside like it is in the US. That's why a fanny pack is called a bum bag over here! LOL! I'll tell you my rude take on that later.........

Leigh said...

Fanny - I got your email - how lovely! I replied to the email address you used, which was different from the one you gave me here, and it bounced back to me. So I resent it to the original address you gave me. Let me know if there were any problems receiving it! Leigh

Leigh said...

Fanny - you seem to be gettin my messages here so thought I would let you know. I got your email with the subject line Confusion. I've replied to that one via your wowway address. I put the text from your email in it (so you would know which of yours I got) as well as what I had sent you in my reply. Let me know if you get that one ok and then we'll know that we're on track! LOL! Such fun, computers. Leigh

BrianAlt said...

I nominate Jocelyn.

Karismaticcouture said...

I am interested. i don't have any friends in a DD relationship. I have always been a spanko. I am younger, almost 30 but I get along with all ages. I have two kids and a wonderful husband of 5 years. He's firm but fair. I love your stories.

Amanda