Thursday, July 31, 2008

We Need A Good Spanking......................

Movie! The latest episode of Weeds really got me craving a good, full length DD type of movie. I know the Weeds spanking wasn't DD, but the realism of it was really refreshing. For those of you who haven't seen the clip -



So many of the spanking movies out there seem to have a different goal in mind than I do. Lots of them use spanking as foreplay, which is fine, but you can always sense that the spanking is just a way of getting from Point A to Point B (point B being sex). There is no real feel of DD in these movies. Too many shots of female genitalia, and the guy usually ends up naked too. Not conducive to putting me in a 'I've been a naughty girl - spank me' mood. There also tends to be a lot of slap and tickle going on, with lots of oooh's and ahhh's and giggling. I just can't get into the proper submissive mode when I'm watching a woman giving the guy a come hither look, moaning 'oh no, sir, please don't spank me' as she slowly turns her back to him and thrusts out her bottom while she leans over the nearest convenient pool table. Who's really in charge here? I want to see the man rolling up his sleeves (as he still has his shirt on) as he advances on his misbehaving wife. I want to see her backing away and looking for an escape route as she tries to talk him out of it. I want to see the struggle as she tries to get away from the painful swats that are landing on her bottom. I want to hear the Toppy lecture as he tells her what she has done wrong and what he is going to do about it. I want Point B to be the spanking!

The other type of spanking movie that seems to be the most common is the one that goes too far - the BDSM scene. Sorry, I can't take dog collars, whips and chains seriously, and hell would have to freeze over before I would call any man Sir and kneel at his feet. He can get me into the corner for a good scolding, but the Master/slave thing just doesn't do it for me. I don't need to see her tied to equipment that turns the whole thing into a circus act. I don't want to see angry red stripes criss-crossing a bottom until it looks like she sat on a hot grill and then slid down a concrete embankment on her bare butt. And if there is any blood? Forget about it! And then she still gives him a blow job! I'd be looking for the nearest sawed-off shotgun.....................

Don't get me wrong - these films have their place and their audience. I begrudge no one their kink. But from what I read on the blogs, there are a lot of us out there who are wanting more realism in our kink, and I don't feel like anyone is catering to us. We just want a harmless crime and a reasonable punishment. Fade out on the sniffling wife as she stands in the corner with her bright red bottom glowing. It seems like there is a huge market out there of people like me and someone is missing out on filling a need. (I bitch about this a lot at home - my hubby keeps telling me I should start making movies - LOL!) Maybe I'm just looking in the wrong places. If anyone knows a good source of these kinds of movies, please tell me! I need more than 2 minute clips.

20 comments:

BrianAlt said...

What if the man is into spanking you, but also wants to tie you up and have you kneel at his feet?

There are definitely movies that have exactly what you want. You just have to search for it.

Leigh said...

That's what I'm trying to do by asking here, brianalt! It's part of the research process.........

fanny said...

Leigh-

Great post! Couldn't have said it better myself. By the way, if you find any fabulous movie clips-you know where to send them!

Leigh said...

Thanks Fanny! Will do!

BrianAlt said...

Which, the movie part or the tieing/kneeling part. Cause I don't think you answered my question.

Leigh said...

I think I answered that in my post - I said hell would have to freeze over before I would kneel for any man. It's ok if you like that - I just don't. So that's not what I am looking for. To each his own.

BrianAlt said...

There's a problem in your logic.

You want it your way, not his way. You want him to do it to you the way you want it done. But 'he' (the fictitious he in this case) wants to do it a different way and you get upset cause it's not going the way you want it to go. So the whole illusion of control gets blown here. It's a paradox.

Leigh said...

No brian - there is no problem with my logic. This isn't about a conflict with some ficticious 'he' - it's just about finding the kind of movies that I like. It isn't a debate about which types are right or wrong.

BrianAlt said...

Ok, I will shut up.

Leigh said...

LOL brian! You remind me of my youngest son. No matter what side of the fence I am on, he has to leap to the other side just to stir things up! Now be a good boy before I pull a switch (in more ways than one) and paddle your butt! Always glad to hear from you.............

stohrmom said...

Hear, Hear, Leigh. I agree with you 100%. My husband and I tried to find a spanking movie at the local Adult movie store, and they had nothing at all. We have not checked out The Stag Shop yet. That is an adult sex store here in Ontario. The closest thing that I can find for a good spanking movie is a link on Bethany's Woodshed website. The link is Spanking Epics. You can check out what they have as for movies. Some of them have trailers that you can watch for free.

A Loving Domestic Discipline Marriage said...

Evening Leigh,

I am not sure if this will help you but I found this site over the weekens, and hubby and I really like it, there are some free spankings video's there, some look real, others you can tell is acting but over all not to bad.. So check this out, this one is about a girls maintenece spanking :)

http://www.spankingtube.com/watch/f0af142b6d3bead98a92/Sarah's-Maintenence-Spanking-PART-1

Cydni said...

Hey there!
This post struck such a chord with me. I, too, have spent countless hours looking for good dd movies, to no avail.
The people making spanking videos just don't get it; grown, straight women are a huge market for them, if they'd just get it right. I don't want to see a naked teenager being "disciplined" by grandpa. I want to see attractive, clean people of the same age, and realistic scenarios.
I write a blog as well(her secret corner), and so many women are on the same page.
As far as being tied up and kneeling at a man's feet-- uh, don't think so! Hell would have to be BEYOND frozen over. Sorry, but I don't care if that's what "he" wants. If that's the case, he's with the wrong partner!

Cheers!
Cydni

she said...

i could not agree more. that's all i'm asking for as well. even my bf i don't think really gets it. like he spanks sometimes, not really for any reason though. like i've told him i like it, but i don't think he gets it. which i've explained it to him before. idk, maybe some guys are just extremely thickheaded. >.< but i have yet to cry from them, yet to be scolded properly, nothing near corner time, and when he does it he always tries to turn it into something sexual and then i get frustrated b/c that's not what i want. i just want discipline. idk why that's so hard to get. obviously i'm not the only one out there with this thinking.

Anonymous said...

What about the movie - Secretary ?

It might be kind of what you are after.

Love

Jane

Anonymous said...

Amiable fill someone in on and this enter helped me alot in my college assignement. Thanks you for your information.

Anonymous said...

Well I acquiesce in but I dream the brief should acquire more info then it has.

Anonymous said...

I have a fairly extensive collection of videos in the private 'Movie House' area attached to my DD discussion forum:

http://swl1.myownchannel.tv/index_related.php?id=116683&r=1

Anonymous said...

You need to shut up and take what's given to you, bitch! Since when did you think vids were produced just to please you anyway? I think you're just aching to take your spankings to the next level, where what you get is not what you want. You're not supposed to want a really good spanking anyway!

Anonymous said...

I absolutely and totally agree that a spanking is much more exciting, when it is the man who decides that now is the time for his wife or girlfriend to get taken over the knees for a good, long vare-bottomed spanking. She knows she has it coming for drinking and driving, but she tries to back away and gets it in the end - and deep down she would not have it any other way. Women would rather have real men than wimps for husbands. The Weeds scene was exciting for that reason - Nancy got a spanking and obviously did not like the pain, but afterwatds she seems to cherish the red fingerprints on bottom and her difficulties when trying to sit down. A spanking of the type that is far yoo rare nowadays - in fictional stories as well as in real life.