Tuesday, June 28, 2005

Staying Put

In one of the comments I received, I was asked about how you stay in position for a spanking even though it hurts so bad and your body just wants to get away. Well, I'm certainly no expert on the subject - yet (LOL)! I know I've had times when I've twisted and turned during a spanking, but hubby has managed to keep me in place with just a hand on my back. Of course, none of my spankings have ever progessed to the point where my brain was screaming at me to flee. When that happens, I'm not sure how I'll react. But in the meantime, I thought I'd post some of my favorite possible positions and deterrents to running away (or bad behavior in the first place!) ........................................

I'm sure positioning has a lot to do with staying put. For the strugglers amongst us, this is surely an imaginative one! Something tells me he's had trouble from her before (I just love these vintage pictures!). I don't think she could go anywhere if she wanted to, and she sure can't put her hands back to protect her bottom. I suppose she could try straightening her legs to lower the target away from him, but that would seem to be a mistake since it would just open up the backs of those tender thighs to being swatted. By the same token, all he has to do is take a step back, pulling her upper body forward and giving him access to all areas of her bottom, including the sit spot. So on a scale of 1 to 10, I give this one a 10, just because it gives me the shivers!

This one sure looks like it would cut down on the ability to run away! He's got a firm grip on her legs and complete access to every inch of her bottom. It's kind of hard to struggle when you're on your back and folded in half. From the way she has her hands over her face, I'd say she has resigned herself to her punishment. I give this one a 10 for position, but only an 8 for his wicked choice of implement!

Ahhh - corner time. I can just hear him - "All right, young lady, you can just stand there until you decide you're going to take your spanking like a good girl! When you've decided to behave, we'll start over. And if I have to put you back here again, we'll start over again! " I think that after a couple of trips to the corner and having your spanking started all over again for the second or third time, you might have second thoughts about trying to get away. I've never been put in a corner myself, but I have to admit, there is something about the thought of standing there with your panties down while he delivers a stern lecture (and the occasional swat) that just gives me goosebumps! I give this one a 7, only because I like to see panties and pants on but lowered to mid-thigh so that the bottom is nicely framed.

There are all sorts of other threats that my hubby could use to make me stay still for a spanking. I know I freeze when I hear the cane swish through the air behind me! There are other things that I have only read about, but think that I would like to try. I know some people cringe when you mention figging, or butt plugs, or anything of that sort, but being the anal spanko that I am, those are things that I am sure I will write about here in the future. So be forewarned - LOL! Would love to hear from any of you on ways that your HOH keeps you in place when you're being disciplined. And please sign my guestbook (link on the right)!


Silver Kitten said...

Thank you so much for answering me so quickly!!! I think this will surely help, especially the first one. doesn't seem like I could crawl forward because of his legs being infront of my shoulders and can't go backward because a) I'd hurt him and b) I'd prolly risk hurting myself if he continued to strike and unintentionally smacked my face or front... Second one also looks pretty good but then wouldn't he just get the left (or right) cheek and not evenly? I dunno ... Third: Saturday he tried corner time for the first time. Only because I was squrimin so much that he was havin trouble hittin his target so he'd send me to the corner, continue to lecture and allow me to collect myself and prepare for another round. It was effective in letting things sink in but not in keeping me still... Either way YOur article is very much appreciated!! may I post it on my new blog? I don't even remember if I wrote a post yet but I would like to post this on there. It would be nice to be able to talk w/ someone about these things and so on... Thanks again!!

Anonymous said...

Have experienced the first position (in play) and it is, to say the least, effect :) i am still trying to convert my Hubby into the DD lifestyle~~have done the brat thing, had the discussion, handed Him all kinds of articles about DD, but i can see a lot of work needs to be done. Guess i am expecting Him to know what to do, without my asking. Still waiting for that spontaneous, hard, OTK spanking for misbehavin...*smiles, guess patience is NOT one of my virtues...lol..PS...silver kitten: look forward to reading your blog too! Who knows, i might get up the courage to start one myself someday :)

Karyn said...

Thanks guys! And silver kitten, sure you can post my stuff on your blog! Would you mind letting folks know where you got it and give them a link here? I need all the traffic and feedback I can get. What's the link to your blog? I'd like to see it. Nice to hear from you both.

Silver Kitten said...

ummm.... still new to this stuff but I believe it's in your guestbook. I thought you could click on my name and get it? Thanks for the permission of course I'll give you 100% credit!! my b/f really liked your advice and actually we found that the small of my back wasn't the worst place to hold me tonight... but then it was more of a reminder than a discipline (don't squirm quite so much for those)please visit and leave lots a comments!! lol have a spanktacular night (I know it's corney but I couldn't resist- in such a good mood after seeing him tonight!!)

Silver Kitten said...

ok maybe it's understandingdiscipline.blogspot.com (wow that is so long) I posted your article but couldn't get two of the pics to work... oh and I'll prolly move it because I didn't want that one to be the first thing that ppl see (since it is a new blog I don't want it to start out w/ someone elses work,lol) try to send some traffic my way, I don't know too many ppl around here...

Anonymous said...

I'm definitely of the extra strokes
for moving school of spanking. Or
if there is a lot of squirming,
starting the spanking over.

I actually give extras for clenching
the bottom too much also. I want
my girl to hold her bottom up for
punishment and take her strokes
across relaxed buttocks.

For a spankee who really has a hard
time staying still, when even extras
don't do the trick, over the knee
works well. You can hold her
firmly and give a good hard paddling
for not taking her spanking like
a good girl.